How to keep ourselves from failure when we see an enemy stumble

By Dean Collins

I keep looking for the exempt clause for this instruction found in Proverbs 24: “Do not rejoice when your enemy falls, and let not your heart be glad when he stumbles.” There seems to be plenty of gloating and excitement these days when someone on the other side of an issue falters. If we heard this only from those who don’t proclaim faith, I could understand. We can’t expect those who profess no allegiance to God to follow his wisdom. But if we do claim faith in God, and when we claim to follow Jesus, then we have no place laughing at the stumbles of an enemy.

Over and over again I have noticed that if we do not pay close attention to our hearts and minds, we will drift toward the behaviors and attitudes of the world. And the world does a lot of celebrating when someone they disagree with or has done them harm falls on hard times.

Jesus agrees

Notice how the instruction of the wise king fits with the teaching of Jesus in the Sermon on the Mount. “Love your enemies,” Jesus said, “and pray for those who persecute you, so that you may be sons of your Father who is in heaven.”

Someone committed to loving as Jesus loves can never celebrate when an enemy falls or stumbles. Oh, this is very difficult. I have been in situations where some have told lies about me, threatened legal actions, and tried to harm ministries I have led. Ultimately their plans and strategies backfired, but real harm and suffering did occur. In moments like these, as hard as it is, our spiritual direction is to pray for our enemies, not laugh at their misfortune.

God will deal

Proverbs adds an interesting follow-up to the warning against rejoicing at an enemy’s failures: “. . . lest the Lord see it and be displeased, and turn away his anger from him.” The lord’s displeasure comes when we lower ourselves to the enemy’s tactics. Our calling is to walk in the wisdom of the Lord and to behave with love, mercy, and grace even to those who have mistreated us. Ultimately, God deals with all evil. Evil has no ultimate victory.

We must remember that the love and grace of God extended to us is also available to everyone else, including our enemies. God wants all men to come to repentance and discover his love, his mercy, and his grace. We should do nothing that interferes with another person discovering Jesus.

The enemy prompts

The enemy of God sees the shaming and ridicule rampant these days on social media and elsewhere. He will use all the bad examples to prompt us to act similarly. Only consistent time in prayer and God’s Word will equip us to catch ourselves in these tempting moments. Over time the practice of praying for our enemies and showing them love transforms us into a visible picture of Christ to them. And one day our actions may very well lead them to surrender to Jesus and experience his full and wonderful grace.

Your time with God’s Word
‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭24:17-22‬; ‭‭Matthew‬ ‭5:43-48‬ ‭ESV

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Dean Collins

Pastor, campus minister, counselor, corporate employee, Fortune 500 consultant, college president—Dean brings a wide range of experiences and perspectives to his daily walk with God’s Word. 

In 1979 he founded Auburn Christian Fellowship, a nondenominational campus ministry that still thrives today. In 1989 he founded and became executive director for New Directions Counseling Center, a service that grew to include several locations and counselors. In 1996 he became vice president of human resources for the CheckFree Corporation (3,000 employees) till founding DC Consulting in 1999. He continues part-time service with that company, offering executive leadership coaching, organizational effectiveness advice, and help with optimizing business relationships.

His latest pursuit, president of Point University since 2006 (interim president 2006-2009), has seen the college grow in enrollment, curriculum, physical campus, and athletic offerings. He led the school’s 2012 name change and relocation from Atlanta Christian College, East Point, Georgia, to Point University in West Point, Georgia. Meanwhile, he serves as board member or active volunteer with several nonprofits addressing issues ranging from global immunization to local government and education. 

He lives in Lanett, Alabama, with his wife, Penny. He has four children (two married) and five grandchildren. He plays the guitar, likes to cook, and enjoys getting outdoors, often on a nearby golf course. 

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